The Leadership Book That Helps You Succeed At Work AND Home, Without Burning Out.
A simple, science-backed leadership model built on 5 core success skills, so you can lead with confidence. Leadership is a mindset, not a title, anyone can learn it, from emerging leaders to CEOs.
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What Readers Say
I'm looking for people who sit in the middle chair, because that's where great leaders sit, and where I try to sit as well.
This amazing book is loaded with insights, ideas and strategies that you can use immediately.
Must-read book for anyone wanting to develop great leadership skills. Hooked me from the start.
Must read for leaders seeking to implement an integrated, authentic and effective management process.
The concept of The Three Chairs is brilliant in its simplicity.
Fresh, timely, and critical for everyone trying to become better leaders.
Helpful context for anyone trying to communicate to colleagues and teammates.
High-performance teams know that success isn't achieved by accident. Dr. Karyn understands this perfectly.
The Three Chairs accelerates your learning and boosts your self-awareness.
Equips you with concrete tools to figure out who is sitting in which chair.
Must-read for all family businesses who want to develop great leadership.
What Chair Are You Sitting In At Work And Home?
Every leader operates from one of three chairs — and most don't realize which one until it's costing them their team, their marriage, or their health.
Left Chair — Insecure
Unclear who they are. Goals too low or too high. Passive. At risk of burnout.
Middle Chair — Confident
Knows themselves. Clear stretch goals. Humble. Assertive. Hungry to learn.
Right Chair — Arrogant
Unclear who they are. Sets unilateral goals. Aggressive. Blames others.
What's Inside The Three Chairs™
Most leaders want to be great. They just don't know how. Without the right skills, research shows communication breaks down, performance stalls, and burnout creeps in.
This book changes that. A practical, science-backed framework for:
- HR & L&D professionals training teams
- CEOs scaling leadership across departments
- Entrepreneurs learning to lead with confidence
- Parents, educators & coaches shaping the next generation
Get Your Copy
Print or bulk, choose the format that works for you. Every copy includes a free PDF workbook & discussion questions.
Print & Amazon
- Choose hardcover, softcover, or e-book
- Available in the U.S. & Canada
- Free PDF workbook, download link is in the book
Bulk Orders
- Hardcover or softcover
- Save 10% on orders of 50 or more
- Contact us for a custom quote on larger orders
- Inquire about special rates for booking Dr. Karyn to speak
Also available at Amazon Canada: amazon.ca
Frequently Asked Questions
What formats is the book available in?
Hardcover, softcover, or e-book, all available through Amazon in the US and Canada.
Does the book come with anything else?
Yes, every purchase includes a free PDF workbook with discussion questions. The download link is inside the book.
Is this the same as Success Intelligence (SI): Leadership System?
No, they work together. The EQ Scorecard measures your 5 core skills, this book is the model that explains great leadership at a high level, and Success Intelligence (SI) is the leadership operating system, built for entrepreneurs and HR teams, that actually teaches and installs those skills across your organization.
Can I order copies for my whole team?
Yes. Bulk orders of 50+ copies get 10% off. Contact us for a custom quote, and ask about special rates for booking Dr. Karyn to speak.
Who is this book for?
HR & L&D professionals, CEOs, entrepreneurs, parents, educators, and coaches, anyone leading a team or a family who wants a practical, science-backed framework to understand great leadership and how this impacts communication and performance at work and home.
Is this a good fit for a team book club?
Yes. Many HR leaders use The Three Chairs as a book club or team study resource, the included workbook and discussion questions make it easy to lead as a group.
Start Leading From The Middle Chair.
The Three Chairs™ is a simple, science-backed leadership model anyone can learn, now available in print, digital, or for your whole team. Leadership is a mindset, not a title, making this the ideal book for emerging leaders to CEOs.